Every month, you write that rent check. $1,100. $1,200. Maybe $1,300. And you know what? That money is gone. Forever.
I've had this conversation hundreds of times with families in the Valley. They're working hard, paying rent on time, building nothing. Meanwhile, their landlord is building wealth with their money.
Let me show you something that might surprise you.
The Real Math Nobody Shows You
Let's say you're paying $1,200 a month in rent right now. That's a good, stable payment. You can afford it.
Here's what most people don't know: You could probably buy a home for around the same monthly payment. Don't believe me? Try our free calculator — just enter your current rent and see what happens.
But here's where it gets interesting. Let me show you what happens over 5 years:
If You Keep Renting
Monthly payment
$1,200
After 5 years paid
$72,000
What you own
$0
Landlord can raise rent?
✓ Yes
Can they ask you to leave?
✓ Yes
If You Buy
Monthly payment
$1,247
After 5 years paid
$74,820
What you own (equity)
~$35,000
Payment stays the same?
✓ Yes*
Can anyone ask you to leave?
✗ No
*Principal and interest stay fixed. Taxes and insurance can change, but you control insurance costs by shopping around.
But It's Not Just About Money
Okay, yes, the numbers matter. But let me tell you what I hear from families after they buy their first home...
"Now I can plant a tree in my backyard and know my kids will climb it when they're older. I can paint the walls any color I want. When something breaks, I fix it how I want it fixed. This is ours."
— Brenda N, Paso A Casa Client
That's what homeownership really gives you:
- Stability. No more worrying about the landlord selling the property or raising rent. Your kids can finish school in the same neighborhood.
- Control. Want to hang pictures without asking permission? Paint your daughter's room pink? Add a fence? It's your house. Do what you want.
- Pride. There's something different about pulling up to your house. Not the landlord's. Yours.
- Predictability. With a fixed-rate mortgage, your payment is the same year after year. The principal and interest never change. Try getting that promise from a landlord.
The Hidden Costs of Renting
Here's what most renters don't realize they're giving up:
1. Rent increases compound over time. Sure, your rent is $1,200 now. But what about in 3 years? 5 years? I've seen rents in the Valley go up $100-$200 per year. Over 5 years, that's thousands more than you planned.
2. You're paying your landlord's mortgage. Think about it. Your landlord bought that house you're renting. They're using your rent money to pay their mortgage. You're building their equity while you get... a place to sleep.
3. No tax benefits. Homeowners can deduct mortgage interest and property taxes. As a renter, you get nothing back at tax time.
4. Zero return on investment. When you move out, you get your deposit back (maybe). That's it. All those years of payments? Gone.
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Real Talk
I had a couple come to me who had been renting for 8 years. Eight years! They'd paid over $96,000 in rent. If they'd bought instead, they would have owned about $60,000-$70,000 in equity. That's enough to pay for their kids' college or buy a second investment property.
The Stepping-Stone Strategy
Now here's where it gets really good. And this is something I learned from working with families right here in the Valley.
You don't need to buy your dream home first. In fact, you shouldn't wait for your dream home.
Here's why: Every year you wait is another year of rent payments building someone else's wealth instead of yours.
The smart strategy? Buy a starter home now. Build equity. Move up later.
How the Stepping-Stone Strategy Works:
1
Buy a modest starter home
Maybe it's not perfect. Maybe it's 3 bedrooms instead of 4. But it's yours, and you're building equity from day one.
2
Live there for 3-5 years
During this time, you're paying down the mortgage and the home is (hopefully) appreciating in value. Your equity is growing.
3
Keep it as a rental property
When you're ready for a bigger home, you don't have to sell. Keep your first home and rent it out. Now you have rental income that helps pay for your new mortgage.
4
Use equity for your next home
The equity you built becomes your down payment for a bigger, better home. And the lender counts your rental income when qualifying you.
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Real Example
Maria bought a $150,000 starter home in 2020.
Monthly payment: $1,250 (less than her rent!)
In 2024, she moved to a $220,000 home. She kept the first house and rents it for $1,500/month.
Now she owns TWO properties, has rental income, and her tenants are paying her mortgage while she builds more equity.
This is how generational wealth starts.
Common Objections (And The Truth)
"But what if I can't afford a down payment?"
FHA loans only require 3.5% down. On a $150,000 home, that's $5,250. Plus, there are first-time homebuyer grants from the city and state that can help. I've seen people get $5,000-$15,000 in assistance.
"My credit isn't good enough."
FHA loans accept credit scores as low as 580. And if you're at 550-579, we can work on a 6-12 month plan to get you there. It's not as impossible as you think.
"What if something breaks and I can't afford to fix it?"
Fair question. But think about this: Right now as a renter, when something breaks, you wait for the landlord to fix it. Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don't. Sometimes you're without AC for a week in August.
As a homeowner, you control the repairs. And honestly? Most repairs cost less than one month's rent. Plus, you can budget for them (unlike surprise rent increases).
"I might move in a few years."
That's okay! You have options. Sell and take your equity with you. Or keep it as a rental property and collect income. Either way, you're ahead of where you'd be as a renter.
The Bottom Line
Look, I'm not saying renting is always wrong. Sometimes it makes sense — if you're only going to be in an area for 6 months, or if you're in a major life transition.
But if you're planning to stay in the Rio Grande Valley for the next few years? If you're paying rent every month anyway? If you want stability for your family?
Buying is almost always the better long-term choice.
Not because I'm trying to sell you something. But because the math is the math. And because I've seen hundreds of families go from "just getting by" as renters to building real wealth as homeowners.
The question isn't really "Should I buy?"
The question is: "How soon can I buy?"
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